Miss Boncek graduated from Williamsville South High School in 1999. She received a degree in psychology from Geneseo State College in 2003 and a master's degree in school psychology from Rochester Institute of Technology in 2006. She is a school psychologist.
Her fiance graduated from Avoca Central School in 1998. He received a degree in history from Corning Community College in 2000 and a Bachelor of Arts degree in history from Geneseo State College in 2003. He is a sociotherapist.
A July 2008 wedding is planned.